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CDT President’s Letter

March 13, 2023 By Rhonda Cleaves

March has arrived along with the realization that it’s already March! As I write this, it is the second anniversary of the day the world the shut down due to the virus-that-shall-not-be-named. It’s amazing to think about how much our world has changed in such a short period of time – including our Collaborative world and the opportunities it has given us to change how we operate on a day to day basis. What’s a good example? How about the opportunity to work with other Collaborative professionals … [Read more...]

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See You At The Camp Out

March 12, 2023 By Charles Quaid

It is not too late to register to attend the March 30 and 31, 2023 Collaborative Law Course (b/k/a “Spring Conference”) at the Sonesta Bee Cave Hotel in Austin. This years theme is “Collaborative Camp Out”, and the “out of the city” locale should allow for an even greater opportunity ability to network and exchange ideas with other collaborative-minded professionals. The Course Directors and Planning Committee have created a lineup of experienced presenters addressing timely collaborative topics … [Read more...]

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President’s Letter – February 2023

February 8, 2023 By Rhonda Cleaves

Happy February, Collaborative Friends. It’s the month of love. How much do you love that you have a better way to offer people who have made the difficult to decision to divorce? Well, it’s time to show that love and pitch in to build up our professional community! After all, the more professionals we have doing this work, the more potential clients who will find this amazing process. I have been challenging you since August with easy suggestions that require a minimal time investment to help … [Read more...]

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Annual Verifications in Credentialing Reminder

February 7, 2023 By Ronda Robinson

Annual Verification (all credentialed/master credentialed)/5 Year Verification (Class of 2018 only) in Credentialing are due on or before April 30, 2023. Use the following links for the appropriate application for you and to find more information. Forms can be obtained by logging into the Member’s Section of the CDT Website. 5 Year Verification of Education and Training for class of 2018 (due April 31, 2023) (THIS IS FOR THE CLASS OF 2018 ONLY)(IF YOU ARE FILLING THIS ONE OUT YOU WILL ALSO … [Read more...]

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Practice Tip – Introduction of the “Walk Around the Estate

February 7, 2023 By David Brunson

In the first joint meeting with collaborative clients, it’s important to describe the journey that they are about to undertake with their collaborative team.  We normally do this by reviewing and discussing the “Roadmap to Resolution” that we follow in the collaborative process. This “roadmap” is a classic problem-solving methodology where we attempt to identify the client’s goals and interests in this first meeting. After this initial meeting, the clients are usually off and running, … [Read more...]

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CDT General Membership Meeting Notice

February 7, 2023 By Ronda Robinson

Collaborative Divorce Texas will hold its annual Membership Meeting on Friday, March 31, 2023 from 12:15 to 1:15 p.m. at the Sonesta Bee Cave Austin Hotel, 12525 Bee Cave Pkwy, Bee Cave, TX 78738 to update all members on the organization’s activities of the previous year, announce new Credentialed and Master Credentialed Collaborative Professionals, and recognize this year’s recipient of the Gay G. Cox Award for Excellence in the Practice of Collaborative Law.  All CDT members are invited … [Read more...]

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President’s Letter – January 2023

January 10, 2023 By Rhonda Cleaves

Happy 2023! It’s a new year and for many, a time for new goals. For me, it’s a renewed commitment to prior goals – growing our Collaborative Divorce Texas membership and increasing awareness of this amazing process in the greater public. Will you join me and make this renewed commitment? Since I began my tenure as President of CDT in June, I have asked you to join me in completing monthly tasks that would help us to grow the organization. Many of those monthly tasks have been to lay the … [Read more...]

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IACP Forum Requests for Proposals

January 8, 2023 By Charles Quaid

In anticipation of an exceptional 2023 Forum in Toronto, the Forum Planning Committee of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals is accepting workshop and PFI (Pre-Forum Institute) proposals earlier than in years past. Do you have great ideas and cutting-edge information to share with the Collaborative community? If so, IACP wants to hear from you. Keep in mind that Forum attendees have varying degrees of Collaborative Practice experience, serve in communities from around the … [Read more...]

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New Year’s (Collaborative) Resolutions

January 8, 2023 By Charles Quaid

The New Year is upon us. Let’s make 2023 a momentous year for our Collaborative Community. CDT remains committed to growing awareness and use of Collaborative Divorce and to foster more opportunities for you to open collaborative cases and bring dignity and optimism for the future to families throughout Texas. To accomplish this, CDT needs its members to make and keep a few “Collaborative New Year’s Resolutions.”  Resolve to encourage clients to use the Collaborative Process and educate … [Read more...]

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CDT President’s Letter – December 2022

December 15, 2022 By Rhonda Cleaves

The end of the year is here. I won’t say “finally here” because for me, I feel like we just got through January. I hope it has been a busy and prosperous year for you. And I hope part of that busy has been completing at least some of those monthly challenges I have been sending out to you since June. I’ve got one for you this month that allows you to sit at home in the comfort of your bunny slippers: Review your website identity: Do you present yourself as a Collaborative Professional or is … [Read more...]

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Practice Tip – Don’t Forget to Listen

December 15, 2022 By Julie Quaid

What does it mean to really listen and why is it important in a collaborative case? Really listening requires paying attention to the words spoken, to hear the spoken words with thoughtful attention. Too often, even in collaboratives cases, we are listening to respond instead of to understand. We feel a need to respond immediately with a solution instead of through thoughtful, curious questions and taking the time to hear the client’s interests behind the strict words spoken. We are focusing on … [Read more...]

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What’s Going On In the Collaborative Community

December 12, 2022 By Charles Quaid

January 2023 3rd Noon -1:00 P.M. CDT Lunch and Learn   Speaker:  Liza Greene, Topic: Bankruptcy for the Collaborative Divorce Practitioner (Zoom) 27th  10:15 A.M. Collaborative Law Institute of Minnesota Training: Home Will Never Be the Same Again: Help for Parents of Gray Divorce and their Adult Children, Who Are Stakeholders in their Parent's Divorce (ZOOM) February 2023 7th Noon -1:00 P.M. CDT Lunch and Learn   Speaker: Jamie Patterson, Topic TBA … [Read more...]

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CDT President’s Letter – November 2022

November 14, 2022 By Rhonda Cleaves

We say this every year – it’s hard to believe it’s November already! And yet, it’s here. We are all busy. Busy with clients who want to finish their cases before the end of the year. Busy with all things that come with the holiday season that we are almost knee-deep in. But the need to spread the word about the existence and benefits of Collaborative does not take a break during this time. My question for you is this – can you spare 30 minutes of your time in the next month to help grow … [Read more...]

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What’s Going On In the Collaborative Community

November 7, 2022 By Charles Quaid

November 2022 16th 11:00 A.M. (Texas Time) IACP Initial Client Contact: The Conversation is Everything Speakers: Louise Livesay-Al, Kendra Erkamaa, Brian Burns, and Kris Algert (Webinar) December 2022 6th Noon -1:00 P.M. December CDT Lunch and Learn   Speaker:  Robin Watts, Topic: Peacefakers, Peacebreakers, and Peacemakers: Managing Interpersonal Conflict Styles in the Collaborative Process (Zoom) January 2023 3rd Noon -1:00 P.M. CDT Lunch and … [Read more...]

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Recognizing and Handling Parent-Child Contact Problems in Collaborative Divorce

November 7, 2022 By Mary Beth Dennie

Parents care deeply for their children and want to mitigate the negative impact divorce can have. Parents who choose collaborative divorce over litigation do so because they are committed to putting the needs of their children first. We all know if children are to grow up healthy, both physically and emotionally, they need to have good relationships with both parents - before, during, and after the divorce. While the collaborative divorce process has many mechanisms in place that offer our … [Read more...]

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CDT President’s Letter – October 2022

October 13, 2022 By Rhonda Cleaves

First, a big THANK YOU to all of you who are joining me in the monthly challenges to spread the good word about Collaborative and bring new member to Collaborative Divorce Texas. You met with lawyers unfamiliar with Collaborative. You invited non-members to our October Lunch-and-Learn. Now I have a new 30-day challenge for you: Take a Mental Health Professional Out for Coffee! One of the best ways we can make Collaborative the preferred method of divorce in Texas is by making sure that … [Read more...]

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What’s Going On In the Collaborative Community

October 11, 2022 By Charles Quaid

October 2022 20th 6:00-7:30 P.M. Collaborative Divorce Collin County Team Thursday Speaker: Robin Watts, M.S., LPC-S, “Out of Balance? Turtling, Tornadoing, and the Importance of the Space Between.” Dinner will be catered by Babe’s. First Floor, 7160 N. Dallas Parkway, Plano, Texas 75024 If you wish to attend, send an email at camille@ccscrogginslaw.com no later than noon on Tuesday, October 18, 2022, with the names of all attendees for whom you are replying. The cost of the meal … [Read more...]

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Practice Tip – Smart Clients Understand (Common Sense Negotiation)

October 11, 2022 By Cindi Barela Graham

Many clients think they are savvy negotiators, but they often fail to understand how their behaviors and attitudes towards each other throughout any divorce process effects the end result. What you and I see as common-sense negotiation tactics, are anything but that to our highly agitated divorce clients. We have all seen the Wife make digs at the unfaithful husband continuously throughout the divorce case. While such disparagement likely makes the Wife feel a bit satisfied for a few moments, … [Read more...]

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CDT President’s Letter – September 2022

September 13, 2022 By Rhonda Cleaves

FREE CLE/CE! That’s right. I have an offer to make you. It’s your next “30-day challenge” that I promised I would be sending each month as this year’s President of CDT. As a member of CDT, you know about our amazing Lunch and Learn Series with informative topics and experienced speakers. And you know that as a member of CDT, you get free CLE/CE for attending these hour sessions. So here’s the offer: We’re going to make it easy for you to spread the word and bring more professionals into the … [Read more...]

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Practice Tip – How To Effectively Debrief A Collaborative Joint Meeting

September 7, 2022 By Rhonda Cleaves

As Collaborative professionals, we have talked the talk for many years. We have said we need to debrief after each of our Collaborative joint meetings to learn and become better Collaborative professionals. But how many of us walk that walk? How many debrief sessions have you been in where the professionals talked about what the clients did or didn’t do instead of what the professionals did or didn’t do? If we’re going to become better Collaborative professionals, we need to change that. We need … [Read more...]

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What’s Going On In the Collaborative Community

September 7, 2022 By Charles Quaid

September 2022 14th, 15th and 16th CDT Basic Training San Antonio (In Person) - Register Here 30th Applications for Credentialing and Master Credentialing for the class of 2023 are due October 2022 4th  CDT Lunch and Learn   Speakers:  Cindi Graham, JD & Christy Ford, LPC"The Grieving Process and its Effects on the Collaborative Process" (Zoom) 27- 30 IACP 23rd Annual Networking and Educational Forum -Share the Collaborative Magic(In Person) Gaylord … [Read more...]

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Practice Makes(Collaborative) Perfect

September 7, 2022 By Charles Quaid

Beginning this month, it is CDT’s plan to feature in this Newsletter a monthly practice or practical tip submitted by one of you, its members. Such may be advice on how a member, or a team, successfully dealt with a unique issue or a persistent problem in the handling of cases, about improving interaction with clients or fellow professionals, or things learned that will help us all become better collaborative practitioners.  From Checklists to Chakras. Techniques on problem solving and problem … [Read more...]

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Read A Good Book Lately?

September 7, 2022 By Charles Quaid

If you have read a book, article or seen a media presentation about or relevant to Collaborative Divorce, please feel free to submit a review and/or recommendation to CDT and allow us to share with the Collaborative Community. Send submissions to cquaid@quaidfarish.com. … [Read more...]

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Help Us Help You

September 7, 2022 By Charles Quaid

Growing Collaborative Practice requires increasing awareness and connectivity. One avenue by which Collaborative Divorce Texas can assist in accomplishing such growth is to provide a vehicle to publicize upcoming presentations or events that may be of interest to CDT members. In this era of virtual presentation, greater audiences can be reached, and professional connections created or strengthened.  Therefore, this Newsletter has a monthly feature “What’s Going on In the Collaborative Community” … [Read more...]

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CDT President’s Letter – August 2022

August 15, 2022 By Rhonda Cleaves

How is it August already? Many of us just attended the annual Advanced Family Law Conference, some of us skipped it and went on vacation, some of us dropped kids off at college, and others dropped theirs off in the carpool line. Time to work! Last month, I did my best to remind everyone about our amazing Collaborative village. And I shared that if we don’t all work together, our village is going to get smaller and eventually become extinct. So, what can YOU do to help keep this movement … [Read more...]

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Gay C. Cox Award Presentation

August 15, 2022 By Honey Sheff, Ph.D.

Having received this award last year was the greatest honor of my professional life—being able to present the award to this year’s recipient comes close to that and I so wish I could be there in person to do so. On the other hand, I can’t imagine a better substitute for doing the honors and reading these words from the bottom of my heart. First I would like to thank the committee which had representatives from around the state. We had an outstanding pool of nominees and I am happy to report … [Read more...]

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What’s Going On In the Collaborative Community

August 15, 2022 By Charles Quaid

September 2022 14th, 15th and 16th CDT Basic Training San Antonio (In Person) - Register Here 30th Applications for Credentialing and Master Credentialing for the class of 2023 are due October 2022 4th  CDT Lunch and Learn   Speakers:  Cindi Graham, JD & Christy Ford, LPC"The Grieving Process and its Effects on the Collaborative Process" (Zoom) 27- 30 IACP 23rd Annual Networking and Educational Forum -Share the Collaborative Magic(In Person) Gaylord … [Read more...]

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Greetings and Gratitude

August 15, 2022 By Charles Quaid

In June, Collaborative Divorce Texas welcomed two new members to its Board of Directors, Liza Greene & Becky Davenport. Liza is an attorney with the Houston firm of Laura Dale & Associates, P.C. and is one of only a handful of Texas attorneys to have Board Certifications in both Family Law and Consumer Bankruptcy. She is affiliated with Gulf Coast Family Law Specialists, Texas Academy of Family Law Specialists, National Association of Consumer Bankruptcy Attorneys, Houston Association … [Read more...]

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Be a Peacemaker

August 15, 2022 By Charles Quaid

It remains critical to Collaborative Practice that our community continually “gets the word out” about the benefits of Collaborative Divorce. To educate and encourage others to join in CDT’s efforts to revolutionize the practice of Family Law. 2022 Gay G. Cox Award winner Julie Quaid took the opportunity at this month’s Advanced Family Law Seminar to do just that, using her acceptance speech before the Texas Family Law Bar to deliver the following message:      “I am … [Read more...]

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CDT President’s Letter – July 2022

July 12, 2022 By Rhonda Cleaves

Rhonda Cleaves

Happy July to all of our Collaborative friends! PLEASE READ THIS LETTER! I hope I have grabbed and can keep your attention for just a few short moments. Some of you may not know this, but our CDT Executive Board rolls over to new officers each year in June. I am beginning my fifth year on the CDT Board of Trustees, and it is my honor to assume the position of Board President for this next year. I can only hope to fill a small part of the large shoes that have been left behind by our … [Read more...]

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What’s Going On In the Collaborative Community

July 11, 2022 By Charles Quaid

July 2022 21st   5:30 -7:00pm CT   Collaborative Divorce Collin County presents  Premarital and Post-marital Agreements in the Collaborative Process Speakers: Amy Lambert, JD (Austin), Lindley Bain, JD (Austin), David Brunson, CFA, CFP, CDFA (Plano) and Syd Sharples, LCSW (Austin). (ZOOM) Description:   The panel will review the requirements of these agreements and compare handling them via the traditional method versus in the Collaborative … [Read more...]

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What’s Going On In the Collaborative Community

June 7, 2022 By Charles Quaid

June 2022 16th   10:00 am. CT   IACP Presents: To Tell or Not to tell: Who needs to know? (Zoom) 22nd 1:00 p.m. CT Standards & Ethics Webinar: Your Playbook: IACP Ethical Standards. IACP’s Standards and Ethics committee present scenarios with challenging ethical issues found in Collaborative Practice Presenters: Stephanie L. Dobson, B.A., J.D., Bonnie M. Brown, & Edward Sachs CPA, ACP; Free to members, $50.00 USD for non-members 24 CDT Advanced … [Read more...]

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Credentialing/Master Credentialing Applications

June 7, 2022 By Charles Quaid

Applications to be Credentialed or Master Credentialed are due to the Credentialing Committee of CDT on or before September 30, 2022. Forms can be obtained by logging into the Member’s Section of  the CDT Website and using the following link: https://members.collaborativedivorcetexas.com/member-services/collaborative-divorce-professional-credentialing/Please be sure to review the "Instructions for Filling Out Applications" before attempting to complete your application by logging into the … [Read more...]

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Beware of the Shadows In the Room

June 7, 2022 By Charles Quaid

We are all keenly aware of the harm that outside shadow advisors can do to the collaborative process. We vet our clients thoroughly and take cautious steps to minimize the influence these advisors may have over them. But there exists another type of shadow advisor: one in the room, but still covert, the “expert” client. This shadow advisor can be as damaging to collaborative resolution as any other one and we must all recognize and address them in a collaborative manner to limit harm to the … [Read more...]

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President’s Corner

June 7, 2022 By Mike Benaglio

As my year of being CDT President has wound down, I want to say thanks and share a few of the blessings I have enjoyed in the doing of it. Henry Ford said, “Coming together is a beginning. Keeping together is progress. Working together is success.” I trust we’ve all experienced profound success in the last year, even as we have all continued to struggle past the unexpected and painful challenges of the same. The ripples of a global pandemic have touched every topic, detail, and rhythm of … [Read more...]

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What’s Going On In the Collaborative Community

May 12, 2022 By Charles Quaid

May 2022 18th 1:00 P.M. CT IACP Presents: Utilizing your Clients' Experiences to Improve Your Practice (Zoom) IACP MEMBERS ONLY  June 2022 3rd   8:45 a.m. – 4:00 p.m. 2nd annual CollabFest Midwest sponsored by Iowa Collaborative Divorce! (Zoom) 16th   10:00 am. CT   IACP Presents: To Tell or Not to tell: Who needs to know? (Zoom) 24 CDT Advanced Interdisciplinary Colaborative Training (in person Austin) September … [Read more...]

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Be Present In The Moment

May 11, 2022 By Charles Quaid

Collaborative Divorce is about helping our clients resolve their problems and about addressing issues in a way that will best equip them as they move forward into their futures. We invite them to practice mindfulness as they do this. We ask that they work through the stress and emotions of the moment by paying attention to their thoughts and feelings and expressing them in goals and interests instead of dwelling in the past. Amid these expectations we, as professionals, need to be mindful of … [Read more...]

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President’s Corner

May 11, 2022 By Mike Benaglio

As we move into summer, I continue to hear great compliments about the Spring Conference. In every one of my collaborative group meetings, post-conference, it seems the team introduces a new concept or practice they learned from the excellent content presented in DFW. I want to extend my thanks to the co-chairs, planning committee and all the presenters. It so nice to be in person, actually sharing life, and helpful work-conversations with incredible professionals! Earl Nightingale is a voice … [Read more...]

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President’s Corner

April 12, 2022 By Mike Benaglio

“I cannot do all the good that the world needs. But the world needs all the good that I can do.”  - Musician and Educator Jana Stanfield All of our CDT attorneys, mental health professionals and financial professionals who sit at collaborative tables with families in Texas, make important and helpful differences because of their knowledge and voice. They need your experience and informed discernment to help sort out their next chapter and I believe you are doing the best you can by partnering … [Read more...]

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What’s Going On In the Collaborative Community

April 7, 2022 By Charles Quaid

April 2022 12 Power: Understanding or Coercion? (Virtual) Speaker Gary J. Friedman - 10:00am to 11:00am 26 Collaborative Divorce Collin County Team Thursday Legacy Hall - 5:30-7:00 p.m., 7800 Windrose Avenue, Plano Texas 75024. Just Socializing With the Collaborative Community (in Person) If you plan to attend, send an email to Camille Scroggins at camille@ccscrogginslaw.com no later than noon on Wednesday, April 20, 2022.  Include the names and email addresses of the attendees for … [Read more...]

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2022 Spring Conference Wrap Up

April 7, 2022 By Charles Quaid

The last major professional gathering most of us attended was likely the 2020 Spring Conference. While that seems so long ago, the strong bond of the collaborative community once again was on display last month in Dallas. The collective spirit of all who gathered to learn, grow, and socialize created an incredible atmosphere and opportunity not just to reconnect but to rejuvenate. To appreciate the process and participants in what we are engaged. To what we are dedicated. From opening … [Read more...]

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Thanks, You Made A Difference

April 7, 2022 By Charles Quaid

Kris Algert Julia Bancroft Kyle Basinger Mike Benaglio Catherine Benouis Suzanne Blake David Bouschor Shannon Bradshaw Marie Briner Jennifer Broussard David Brunson Rhonda Cleaves Barbara Cole Dodee Crockett Tim (The Crouch Group) Crouch Becky Davenport Mary Beth Dennie Esther Donald Melinda Eitzen Jack Emmott Angela England-Pence Jennifer Failla Christopher Farish Jonathan Friday Mickey Gayler … [Read more...]

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Why You Should Attend The Annual CDT Membership Luncheon

March 21, 2022 By Charles Quaid

The 2022 Annual Meeting of the CDT Membership will be held during Spring Conference at the Westin Galleria on March 25 from Noon to 1:15 p.m..  There are many reasons you should attend: a State of the CDT Union will be presented by officers and Committee reports provided by committee chairs, new Board Members introduced, and the 2022 recipient of the Gay G. Cox Award will be revealed. BUT the primary reason to attend is that CDT is YOUR organization.  An organization that is helping … [Read more...]

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President’s Corner

March 9, 2022 By Mike Benaglio

Fellow friends and colleagues, Serious times call for serious hearts. We must always change, renew, rejuvenate ourselves; otherwise, we harden.~ Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, 18th century German poet As we anticipate the hope and goodness of Springtime ahead, unsettling images from around the globe, right on the heels of a two-year global pandemic, are enough to cause us, and all those we serve …more than a little PTSD in our souls. If we can bring steady words and a calming presence into … [Read more...]

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What’s Going On In the Collaborative Community

March 8, 2022 By Charles Quaid

March 2022 24 and 25 “Spring Conference 2022” SBOT Collaborative Law Course to be held at the Westin Galleria Hotel – Dallas. (In Person) 25 CDT Annual Membership Meeting - Members Only 28-31 The 2022 IACP Global Virtual Institute (Virtual) The Institute will be held virtually on dates and times intended to accommodate as many of its international members as possible. The Institute offers five six-hour courses. Each course is broken into two days with three hours of instruction on each … [Read more...]

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Are you interested in leading a workshop or PFI at IACP’s upcoming 23rd Annual Forum?

February 10, 2022 By Charles Quaid

The International Academy of Collaborative Professionals is seeking speakers to present at its fully in-person 23rd Annual Networking & Educational Forum in Orlando, Florida on October 27-30, 2022. This year’s theme is Share the Collaborative Magic, and in the spirit thereof, IACP is soliciting its members to submit proposals for diverse, innovative, and in-demand topics of interest to the Collaborative World.   The deadline for proposals is March 8, 2022, 5:00 pm … [Read more...]

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President’s Corner

February 10, 2022 By Mike Benaglio

Valentine Greetings! CDT membership means so much to our profession; it’s a commitment to a better path for our clients towards their new normal. Thank you for being a member and thank you to the board for their time and talent, as hard-working volunteers! Please know that your board is always open to new ideas and suggestions. We want to enhance and expand our profession to new levels, year by year, going forward. I would like to share one of my favorite Martin Luther King, Jr. quotes. … [Read more...]

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Come One, Come All

January 13, 2022 By Charles Quaid

While Covid did not slow the use of the collaborative process, and in fact, provided through its adaptability, one more reason why it is superior to litigation, it did impact the bond that collaborative professionals share. The experience of “up close and in person” collegiality with like-minded professionals has been negatively affected by Covid. I think you will be pleased to learn that with vaccines, boosters and/or appropriate Covid protocols, the band is getting back together (so to speak - … [Read more...]

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President’s Corner

January 13, 2022 By Mike Benaglio

Hello 2022! We are beginning a new year and a fresh perspective. We are a community of professionals, focused on bringing a better way to get our clients to their new normal. I believe your CDT membership helps make this possible, honoring the future of children, legacy and relationships. I was blessed to have a mentor in my friend John Anderson, who taught me an impactful concept. That concept is that we are walking on hallowed ground. I took this to mean that when a couple makes a decision … [Read more...]

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President’s Corner

December 13, 2021 By Mike Benaglio

Bye, Bye 2021, glad you are done and in the books! I am so proud of our CDT Board and Ronda stepping up as our full-time Executive Director! Thank you for working diligently this year, overcoming many obstacles and staying focused on improving the Collaborative Divorce Texas organization. The board has been busy all year revamping policies and procedures, taking an active role in legislative changes, improving the website (spoiler alert – it is almost ready to go live), and promoting … [Read more...]

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What We Are Hoping to Find Under the CDT Christmas Tree This Year

December 13, 2021 By Charles Quaid

Christmas tree with gifts

This month marks the beginning of my second year as Editor of this Newsletter. We have strived to make it a little less formal, more informational than educational (except information about collaborative education opportunities), and more succinct. The Crouch Group team that does the yeoman's job getting this Newsletter out to you, took my desire to change its appearance and made it all shiny and bright. Ronda Robinson has been her normal incredible always-with-a-solution Executive Director, and … [Read more...]

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What’s Going On In the Collaborative Community

November 15, 2021 By Charles Quaid

December 2021 2 and 3 - CLI Minnesota Forum Non-Members Welcome Virtual and In Person https://www.collaborativepractice.com/event/cli-minnesota-annual-forum-2021 January 2022 12, 13, 14 and 20 - IACP Introductory Collaborative Practice Training. Non-Members Welcome Virtual https://www.collaborativepractice.com/event/1st-quarter-2022-online-introductory-interdisciplinary-collaborative-practice-training March 2022 3-5 Collaborative Professionals of Washington 15th Annual … [Read more...]

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Their Process, Their Party

November 15, 2021 By Charles Quaid

Scott Clarke left us with an important reminder in his last presentation at Collaborative Divorce Texas’ annual Spring Conference: it is the parties’ process. I am constantly reminding myself of same as I try to improve my skills as a collaborative attorney. One way I do so is not only continuing my training and education but immersing myself in the collaborative community in Texas, across the country and throughout the world. Learning from and observing the awe-inspiring talent that has … [Read more...]

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President’s Corner

November 15, 2021 By Mike Benaglio

Michael Benaglio

It is that time of year again, Holiday Season!! So much fun, food and merry making for many, unfortunately not for all. We are in a business where we witness some pretty challenging emotions and financial stress during this season, compounded by the parenting schedules! This is another example of how the collaborative process and team approach is a great option for communication skill-building and financial accountability during these times. In the Collaborative Process, we try to help the … [Read more...]

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One More Reason to Divorce Collaboratively

October 11, 2021 By Charles Quaid

Last month, a Kentucky judge in a Bullitt County Family Court declined to grant a divorce after hearing the prove up for the divorce, and instead, sent the couple back to counseling. The parties had previously tried counseling several times, but those attempts were unsuccessful. The Judge’s rational for this ruling was that because the parties cordially resolved their divorce and put the interests of their child before their own, their marriage must not be irretrievably broken.  Even the … [Read more...]

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President’s Corner

October 11, 2021 By Mike Benaglio

To quote my Italian paisano, Leonardo Da Vinci, “Learning is the only thing the mind never exhausts, never fears, and never regrets.” A great tool that CDT prides itself on is excellent training and educational sessions. This year we have implemented a monthly ‘Lunch and Learn’ hour that creates a space where CDT members can share their experience using the Collaborative disciplines. Another is our Spring Conference each year. This is a special time to hear from many Collaborative … [Read more...]

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Virtual Basic Interdisciplinary Training

October 11, 2021 By Ronda Robinson

Participants must attend ALL sessions (there is only one registration for all four half-day sessions) to receive credit for the Collaborative Basic Training by Collaborative Divorce Texas standards and for credentialing purposes.  If a participant is only able to attend a portion of the days, application can be made for those hours of CLE/CE credits.  Thursday November 4, 2021 from 1:00-4:00 p.m. Friday November 5, 2021 from 1:00-4:00 p.m. AND Thursday November 11, 2021 … [Read more...]

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What’s Going On In The Collaborative Community

September 15, 2021 By Charles Quaid

October 2021  28-31th   The International Academy of Collaborative Professionals’ 22nd Annual Forum: Lighting the Way Together will take place live and in person in San Diego, California. For more information about the Forum and a detailed description of the planned presentations go to:  https://www.collaborativepractice.com/iacp-forum For those unable to attend in person, IACP has created an opportunity to virtually attend a modified Forum Beacon When We Are Apart. For … [Read more...]

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Summer Is Over, So Why Are The Dog Days Still Here?

September 15, 2021 By Charles Quaid

dog days of summer

Summer 2021 is winding down however, COVID Is not. While increase in the number of vaccinated has occurred, Delta has slowed our return to “normalcy”.  The light at the end of the tunnel just seems to keep drifting farther.  That reality weighs upon us, personally and professionally. It also weighs upon our clients. Nerves can be a little more on edge. Emotions run a little higher. Attention is more easily distracted and patience a little too thin.  Therefore, we as collaborative … [Read more...]

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President’s Corner

September 15, 2021 By Mike Benaglio

Mike Benaglio

MLK, Jr. said, “the time is always right to do the right thing.” This is a principle at the very core of why CDT exists and why I’m involved in this process – to add value to our professional platforms and to efficiently make progress every time we connect with those we serve. As we have witnessed extreme styles of political and social polarization of late, it’s possible some of it may have also spilled over into the lives of our clients, and thus …into our practices. My hope is that CDT can … [Read more...]

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Credentialing: Can I Get It Done?

September 15, 2021 By Honey Sheff, Ph.D.

Since the collaborative process is about transparency, if you are asking this question today the honest answer is probably not for this year’s class of applicants (although you can certainly try). While not impossible, the application process was designed to be challenging so that the achievement would have significance and be worth the effort it required. Credentialing is not a rubber stamp process, nor is it simply an “application” to fill out and submit with a guarantee of acceptance. As a … [Read more...]

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Practice Tip for Credentialing in 6 Easy Steps

August 16, 2021 By Ronda Robinson

In 2017, Collaborative Divorce Texas made credentialing available to qualified legal, financial, and mental health professionals.  Getting credentialed involves several steps and can be challenging if you don’t plan ahead because some requirements take years to complete.  The requirements to qualify to be a Credentialed Collaborative Professional include: Be a member of CDT for three consecutive years prior to your application;Be licensed and in good standing with your applicable … [Read more...]

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What’s Going On In the Collaborative Community

August 13, 2021 By Charles Quaid

September 2021 14    The Financial Neutral Role – It’s not just about the numbers IACP September Webinar (open to non-members) For more information or register go to https://www.collaborativepractice.com/civicrm/event/info?reset=1&id=136 23-24   JUST ROLL WITH IT: Recognizing & Responding to Resistance, a virtual Two Day Advanced Interdisciplinary Training Presented by CDT (detailed elsewhere in this Newsletter) October 2021 5 Noon CDT October … [Read more...]

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Spotlight on the Collaborative Law Section

August 13, 2021 By Charles Quaid

Congratulations to the new 2021-2022 State Bar of Texas Collaborative Law Section Council and Officers:  Chair: Jill LoweVice Chair: Chris FarishVice Chair, Family: Cindi Barella GrahamVice Chair, Civil: Anne ShutteeSecretary: Dianne CarlsonTreasurer: Constance Mims Immediate Past Chair: Laura Schlenker  Council Members are Richard Shannon and Lori Kern. In other BIG NEWS, the Section is launching a new and improved website this summer, CollaborativeLawSection.com Check it … [Read more...]

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Gay G. Cox Award Presentation

August 13, 2021 By Camille Milner

Dr. Honey Sheff

The book “Generation to Generation” presents a “systems approach” to resolving conflict whether within  church or a divorce. The author, Edwin H. Freeman, coined a phrase, “the non-anxious presence,” to describe certain people who can change the dynamics in a room or negotiation. Gay G. Cox, one of our pioneers in Collaborative Divorce, was such a non-anxious presence. We lost her 8 years ago in a freak accident, but she remains one of our guiding lights. It’s no wonder that she and this … [Read more...]

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President’s Corner

August 13, 2021 By Mike Benaglio

Mike Benaglio

Looking forward to our new normal, even as we experience more variants, we continue to redefine some of the rhythms of life and work. I want to talk about a unique rhythm of Collaborative divorce that I believe is a special and essential value to our process. If I may share…having spent a decade in the restaurant industry, followed by another decade in construction, my friend John Anderson convinced me it was time to dedicate full time and energy to the practice of business valuation and … [Read more...]

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Distinguish Yourself, Shine Your Light and Get Credentialed

August 13, 2021 By Jack Emmott, III

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For over 20 years the worldwide Collaborative Divorce Movement has been devoting its efforts in educating the public on the benefits of this process to protect and preserve the co-parenting relationship, shelter children from harm in custody litigation and enable couples to uncouple in a civil, caring, and compassionate manner.  Those efforts by you, me and CDT have created a greater demand for Texas couples to choose Collaborative Divorce as the preferred method to dissolve their … [Read more...]

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President’s Corner

July 12, 2021 By CD Texas Staff - s.t.

Mike Benaglio

As my first act as the new President for CDT, I want to acknowledge all the CLI-TX/CDT Presidents and Trustees that have served us so very well and extend my gratitude.  I am both humbled and honored to work among professionals, who walk with clients during some of the hardest and most painful times of life. I know that there is no need to remind the members of CDT of the virtue in the critical work you do to help families in the divorce process. I appreciate the time and care you give … [Read more...]

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A Little Farther Afield

July 12, 2021 By Charles Quaid

For those seeking an even broader perspective on the use and differences in collaborative law practice around the globe, the Australian Association of Collaborative Professionals (AACP) is holding an 8-part session series, the 2021 Road to Resolution Conference from April – November 2021. AACP RTR will be live-streamed online to offer a safe, secure and flexible experience for attendees to access from home, work or abroad. It also allows opportunity to those in Texas to attend a conference that … [Read more...]

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Save The Date: IACP’s 22nd Annual Forum

July 12, 2021 By Charles Quaid

The International Academy of Collaborative Professionals’ 22nd Annual Forum: Lighting the Way Together will take place live and in person in San Diego October 28 – 31, 2021. For those unable to attend in person, the Forum will also be available through a virtual program entitled Beacon When We’re Apart. The Forum consists of 8 Pre-Forum Institutes, 29 in-person workshops and 9 virtual workshops, each with highly skilled collaborative presenters from around the world, renowned Keynote speakers, … [Read more...]

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September 2021 Advanced Interdisciplinary Training

July 12, 2021 By Charles Quaid

CDT will present JUST ROLL WITH IT: Recognizing & Responding to Resistance, a virtual Two Day Advanced Interdisciplinary Training on Thursday, September 23, 2021: 1:00 p.m. – 4:00 p.m.  and Friday September 24, 2021: 9:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m. The Trainer will be Deborah, Gilman, Ph.D., a licensed psychologist, mediator, child specialist, and coach who has special expertise working with those impacted by trauma. Dr. Gilman will inform us on how to better help clients navigate their … [Read more...]

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CDT At Advanced Family Law Seminar

July 12, 2021 By Charles Quaid

CDT will have a vendor booth during next month’s Advanced Family Law Seminar in San Antonio (Aug 2-5), so please stop by and say hello to our Executive Director, Ronda Robinson, who will be manning the booth. She would love to see people in person - finally. It is also an opportunity to encourage colleagues to learn about and join CDT. Also, on Monday August 2, 2021’s Awards Ceremony (usually held at the end of the day’s session) Dr. Honey Sheff will be receiving her Gay G. Cox Award. This … [Read more...]

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Newly Updated Collaborative Forms Now Available

June 10, 2021 By Camille Milner

Your CDT Forms Committee (Chair, David S. Bouschor, II; members Amy Lambert and Camille Milner), have been working through the forms on the website to update them for everyone’s use. So far, we have completed the revisions to the Participation Agreement (Team and Lawyers Only Models) and the Short Form Highlights of the Participation Agreement and they have been approved by your Board so they are being uploaded to the CDT website.We have also been working on adding the “passport” language that … [Read more...]

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A Few Words About Our Outgoing President

June 10, 2021 By Charles Quaid

Julie Quaid

“Kid in a candy shop” is a great way to describe how our outgoing CDT Board President, Julie Quaid felt when she learned about Collaborative Law 20 years ago. Her excitement to learn everything about the process and implement it in her family law practice became her professional quest. She trained repeatedly (still does) and fully immersed herself in the new, better, and less destructive way for families to resolve divorce and child issues. And, as same was consistent with her personality and … [Read more...]

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A Changing of the Guard

June 10, 2021 By Charles Quaid

June marks the beginning of a new Board of Directors and Officers, and sadly, the end of the tenure of one who has worked tirelessly to help CDT be the best state Collaborative Association in the country. New board members are Mary Beth Dennie and Jamie Patterson. Mary Beth is a family counselor based in Weatherford, Texas. She holds a Master of Science degree in Counseling Psychology and is licensed by the State of Texas to provide psychotherapy and counseling services to individuals of all … [Read more...]

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Spotlight on CDT Executive Director Ronda Robinson

May 12, 2021 By Julie Quaid

Ronda Robinson

The Board of Trustees of Collaborative Divorce Texas is happy to announce that after seventeen years of filling the role on a part time basis, Ronda Robinson has agreed to provide her services as CDT’s Executive Director full time. As Executive Director, Ronda is responsible for the day-to-day activities of CDT. She wears many hats and wears them all equally well. At any given moment, Ronda can change hats according to CDT’s needs. As most of our members know Ronda from her most visible … [Read more...]

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LUNCH & LEARN – Presented by Jennifer Tull, JD: Expanding the Pie when Negotiating Children’s Schedules

May 12, 2021 By Ronda Robinson

Date: June 1, 2021Time: 12:00 pm  to  1:00 pm via ZOOM We have all had the client who wants to compare the number of days per month he or she has with the children to the number of days the children will spend with their other parent.  That seems understandable, if not reasonable.  Then there are the parents who want to compare hours, or waking hours, weekend hours, or non-school waking hours, or hours outside of school and extracurricular activities when they can be with … [Read more...]

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Sometimes It is Not About the Orange – A Review of May’s Lunch & Learn Presentation

May 12, 2021 By Charles Quaid

The beauty of Collaborative Divorce and the collection of voices in CDT was punctuated by May’s “Lunch and Learn” presentation on “Curious Listening” by Syd Sharples, MBA, LCSW (assisted by Kris Algert, Tasha Rock and Julie Quaid). The topic addressed revealed how collaborative practice continues to evolve and redefine itself, never resting on its laurels. “Curious Listening” is a concept and technique that grew from the recognition that sometimes it is not about the “orange”. In many cases, … [Read more...]

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Expand Your Reach

May 12, 2021 By Charles Quaid

teamwork

Membership in Collaborative Divorce Texas is crucial to a successful Collaborative Divorce Practice. It provides access to forms, training, education, shared marketing and critically, interaction and connection with like-minded professionals. Along with membership, CDT facilitates a sense of Community. Our statewide community is expansive but it is also extremely important to participate in the collaborative community at all levels. Becoming active in your collaborative practice group, local bar … [Read more...]

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Lunch And The Polyvagel Theory

April 14, 2021 By Julie Quaid

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CDT’s Education and Training Committee, chaired by Carol Mapp, devised a ingenious way to bring continuing education to our members during a time when going to seminars and trainings has been limited by the Covid pandemic. On April 6th, members of CDT were treated to the first of a series of free Lunch and Learn presentations.  This one was skillfully reported by our own Jennifer Leister and Melinda Eitzen along with Charissa Fry, a Licensed Professional Counselor in Sunnyvale. The … [Read more...]

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CDT Presenting “Lunch And Learn” Series

April 14, 2021 By Charles Quaid

On April 6, 2021 Collaborative Divorce Texas initiated its virtual “Lunch and Learn” series which features a cross section of experienced collaborative professionals discussing various issues of common interest to those who practice collaborative divorce - all from comfort of your desk/desktop. The series of unique one-hour presentations will be held at noon on the first Tuesday of each month through November, 2021. Not only will CDT members gain great insight from the Lunch and Learn, but … [Read more...]

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A Collaborative Professional’s Experience Using Her Skills With Her Aging Parents

April 14, 2021 By Cindi Barela Graham

senior couple

Recently, my family had the extraordinarily grueling challenge of helping our parents come to the realization that they could no longer live on their own.  While in rehab following my father’s brain surgery, he admitted to my sisters and me he could no longer care for our mother.  And while our mother thought she was fully capable of caring for herself and him, the reality was much different.  Any time my sister or I even mentioned our parents leaving their home, our mother became … [Read more...]

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Don’t Miss This Summer’s Advanced Training!

March 10, 2021 By Julie Quaid

Last year we missed CDT’s annual Advanced Training, but thankfully, it is back on the schedule this year. Jacinta Gallant, a Canadian collaborative lawyer, conflict trainer, mediator and innovator will be presenting virtually but still interactively. Jacinta is recognized internationally for her insightful and experiential approach to teaching and managing conflict. She is known for her keen intelligence, engaging personality, and practical, non-judgmental approach to conflict. Her trainings are … [Read more...]

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Dr. Honey Sheff Awarded the 2021 Gay G. Cox Award for Excellence in Collaborative Law

March 10, 2021 By Julie Quaid

Honey Sheff

The Gay G. Cox Award for Excellence in Collaborative Law is given annually by Collaborative Divorce Texas to an exceptionally deserving CDT member who is substantially involved in collaborative practice, devoted fully to any task undertaken (often going above and beyond the call of duty), exemplifies the highest standards of professionalism and ethics, and finally, is passionately committed to transforming the conflict resolution process. This year’s recipient of the Gay G. Cox Award for … [Read more...]

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Spring Conference Wrap

March 10, 2021 By Charles Quaid

virtual spring conference

Touted as The Best Seminar You Will Never Attend, the tongue-in-cheek promotion was spot on. Having attended IACP's Annual Forum in October, I was keenly aware that virtual collaborative conferences can still be intimate, connections can be made, and community shared. Texas Collaborative Professionals insured that 2021 Spring Conference was all that and a bag of (tortilla) chips more. The Course Directors, Planning Committee, presenters, CDT Board, State Bar and all responsible for the technical … [Read more...]

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Annual CDT General Membership Meeting

February 5, 2021 By Rhonda Cleaves

On Friday, March 5, CDT will be holding its 3rd Annual General Membership Meeting in conjunction with the State Bar Collaborative Law Conference. Unlike the Conference which will be presented in a webinar-style format, the General Membership Meeting will be a live format meeting on Zoom from 12:00 to 1:00 p.m. It will be a great opportunity to connect virtually with Collaborative friends from around the state and hear what CDT has been doing for you in the last year. Since the start of this … [Read more...]

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COVID-19 and Its Impact on Foundational Changes to The Practice of Law and Service Professionals

February 2, 2021 By Charles Quaid

The massive shifts in daily lives occurring in 2020 required lawyers and other service providers to rethink, reimagine and reengineer how they provided their services to their clients, interacted with other professionals, and fulfilled their obligations to their clients. Grace and understanding during the initial learning curve have given way to an expectation of competence. All of this has occurred when none of us know exactly what the future will bring as far as COVID-19 is concerned.  We … [Read more...]

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Make Diversity in Collaborative Practice Your New Year’s Resolution

January 13, 2021 By Charles Quaid

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Collaborative Divorce will only truly succeed if it is viewed as a process for everyone.  Every sex, every ethnicity, every religion, every sexual orientation, every gender identification, and every economic group. Such applies to the professional who practice Collaborative Divorce. Our membership and leadership must reflect society. Unfortunately, and despite efforts such as pro bono projects, CDT and our clients lack diversity. Therefore, we must look deep within ourselves as … [Read more...]

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14th Annual Collaborative Law Course (Spring Conference)

January 13, 2021 By Julie Quaid

With the annual SBOT/CDT Collaborative Law Course less than seven weeks away, I began thinking about what the conference means to all of us and the significance of its commonly referred to name, “Spring Conference”. Spring is a season of new beginnings, and the collaborative divorce process contributes immeasurably to the way a family begins their new relationship. Collaborative Divorce helps each client transition to their “new beginning” in the most positive, transparent, respectful, and … [Read more...]

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Camille Milner Receives Gay G. Cox Award for Excellence in Collaborative Law

August 14, 2020 By Camille Milner

Camille Milner

The Annual Gay G. Cox Award for Excellence in Collaborative Law has been presented to Denton Collaborative Attorney Camille Milner.  The award was announced at the Collaborative Law Conference in Austin and is normally presented at the State Bar’s Annual Advanced Family Law Seminar in August each year.  The Covid-19 Pandemic forced that seminar online this year.  Camille Milner is being honored for her contributions to the Collaborative Divorce movement in Texas.  Milner … [Read more...]

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Credentialing 2020 Updates

August 14, 2020 By Julie Quaid

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Collaborative Divorce Texas established the requirements for its members to become credentialed in 2017 with an Inaugural Class of nineteen attorneys, two financial professionals and six mental health professionals.  Since that time, seventeen more Collaborative Divorce Texas members have been credentialed.  With the accomplishment of qualifying to be a Credentialed Collaborative Professional or a Master Credentialed Collaborative Professional, our members are able to distinguish … [Read more...]

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Divorce, Oil and Gas, and Covid-19

July 15, 2020 By David Bouschor, II

oil and gas and divorce

In any Divorce, involving “Oil and Gas”, the professional needs to be aware of the “special circumstances” that are present. If the oil and gas issue is present in the divorce due to one of the parties having mineral interests, there are tracing, depletion and reimbursement claims that will need to be considered. However, if the Oil and gas issue is present in the divorce due to one of the parties owning or in management of an Oil and Gas company, the moving parts that are present with the … [Read more...]

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Be a Zoomie! Collaborative Zoom Meeting Checklist

July 15, 2020 By Carol Mapp

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Many collaborative professionals are utilizing Zoom, Web EX or other video platforms to conduct collaborative meetings.  Guidelines that comprise good meeting protocols, including preparedness, paying attention, and proper flow of meeting all apply to the success of Collaborative video meetings and contribute to a productive outcome.  The goals of any collaborative meeting include maintaining respect for all attendees, efficiency, targeted communication, sharing information, asking … [Read more...]

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Time to Get Ready for our Monumental Moment: An Ironic Gift Given to us by the Coronavirus

April 23, 2020 By Camille Milner

I recently came across an article that had a title that caught my attention, “Time to Tend to Our Souls: Coronavirus May Allow Us to Address the Distractions that Separate Us from Each Other [and from God],” but when I checked the author and found out that he was from a more conservative denomination and theology than I subscribe to, I sat it aside, thinking I would try to get back to it when I had time. A couple of times, in cleaning up my piles of newspapers, I almost threw it away without … [Read more...]

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5 Things To Do Now in the Midst of Coronavirus Limitations

March 17, 2020 By Tim Crouch

Coronavirus or COVID-19 is creating all kinds of havoc in our lives and in business.  Here at The Crouch Group, we have some recommendations for how to manage during this crisis and hopefully emerge stronger after the crisis has passed.   1. Zoom  We are great fans of Zoom.  There are opportunities to conduct client meetings, webinars and even joint collaborative meetings by Zoom.  Some of our California clients are offering the Divorce Options class by Zoom.  … [Read more...]

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Making Use of Virtual Collaborative Divorce Meetings During the Coronavirus Pandemic

March 17, 2020 By Jack Emmott, III

virtual meetings

As collaborative professionals we have the benefit of not having to prepare for and attend hearings in court except for obtaining uncontested divorces or agreed orders in suits affecting the parent-child relationship. Thus, we are not dependent upon the earnings we make from litigation unlike many other family lawyers, financial professionals, and MHP’s. Our economic welfare is solely dependent upon making the best use of the collaborative law process to resolve differences between parents and … [Read more...]

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13th Annual Collaborative Law Conference Austin – March 5-6, 2020

March 16, 2020 By Mickey Gayler

collaborative law conference

As anxious as we all feel, it was reaffirming as a collaborative practitioner to attend this year’s Spring Conference in Austin.  From the opening remarks about what has been accomplished in Texas over the last 20 years to John McShane’s militant cry that it’s time we directly challenge the family law litigators to the profound lyrics of Jack Emmott’s remarks about the presence of hope in our everyday lives, the conference had a lot to offer all the attendees. Austin’s Jonathan Friday … [Read more...]

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Expanding Collaborative Divorce Marketing Efforts

February 18, 2020 By Mickey Gayler

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What are we trying to accomplish when we announce that we are creating new marketing efforts in order to grow the use of the Collaborative Divorce Process in Texas?  In one of my previous incarnations, I was an entertainment executive responsible for programming theaters and amphitheaters with live entertainment.  I had a mentor who used very few words when he gave me advice on marketing: “Sell more tickets!!” I would sit back in my chair and think about that phrase over and over. … [Read more...]

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Policies and Procedure Committee

November 14, 2019 By Carol Mapp

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Committee Mission Create, review, make recommendations, and potential changes in CDT’s policies and procedures.  The Policy and Procedures Committee shall meet once yearly in person and by electronic means quarterly or as needed to accomplish the committee's goals. Workflow of the committee: Documents would be drafted and sent between members for review and feedback until the policy or procedure is ready for board review and then revised as needed. Goals of … [Read more...]

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A Behind The Scenes Look At The Collaborative Divorce Texas Fund-Raising Committee

September 19, 2019 By Kevin Pinkley Leave a Comment

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There are challenges and opportunities with all charitable non-profit organizations, such as Collaborative Divorce Texas.  Of course, we all know Collaborative Divorce Texas is certainly more than a charitable non-profit organization. The fact remains that we, like other charitable non-profit organizations, rely on assistance from our members, and the public.  One of the ways we can support Collaborative Divorce Texas is to donate.  We can donate our time, effort and our … [Read more...]

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To Credential or not to…Nope, Not is NOT an option

August 30, 2019 By Honey Sheff, Ph.D. Leave a Comment

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To all my collaborative colleagues who shudder at the thought of going through yet another certifying process to add to your already over-certified resume, I ask you to take a deep breath and take the plunge—if not to distinguish yourself, for the sake of lending credibility to the practice of collaborative divorce. We in the collaborative divorce world are continuing to fight for legitimacy of a process that we all believe in. But passion and faith are not enough to ensure that collaborative … [Read more...]

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It Was Worth It

August 23, 2019 By Kim Munsinger Leave a Comment

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Why You Should Become a Credentialed Collaborative Professional I’m sure many collaborative professionals have wondered--like I did--whether getting the collaborative credential would be worth the effort.  Collaborative Divorce Texas credentials aren’t pay-to-play like so many awards these days.  You have to earn it, and it takes time and diligence.    What do we all want?  More collaborative cases!  While I can’t prove the increase in my collaborative cases … [Read more...]

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New CDT Membership Benefits

May 8, 2019 By Rhonda Cleaves Leave a Comment

As Chair of the Membership Committee, I and our committee members are always considering ways to provide you with greater benefits for your membership with Collaborative Divorce Texas. With our enhanced social media campaign that was launched just this last year, we have more and more people coming to our organization’s website to learn about the benefits of a Collaborative Divorce and find Collaborative Divorce professionals to represent them in the process. If you don’t have your membership … [Read more...]

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Protocols of Practice – Policies and Procedures Committee

May 2, 2019 By Carol Mapp Leave a Comment

protocols of practice

The Policies and Procedure Committee are working to revamp Protocols of Practice for Collaborative Divorce Texas members.  The Protocols are designed to provide guidance and assistance to professionals using the collaborative process by utilizing a uniform approach to attain the best outcome for their clients. The protocols are to be used as a guideline, by professionals who are trained in the collaborative process. The protocols address the fundamentals of the process, the need to preserve … [Read more...]

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An Inconvenient Truth: What the legal system tells us about children and divorce

April 10, 2019 By Carie Silvestri Leave a Comment

children and divorce

At last year’s State Bar of Texas Collaborative Law Course, Jennifer Leister and Carie Silvestri presented “#Truth: Children speak the truth about divorce.”  Building off that presentation, Carie and Jennifer and a committee of collaborative professionals from throughout the state, including Dr Honey Sheff, Melinda Eitzen, JD, Curtis Harrison, JD, and Mickey Gaylor, JD, interviewed judges, custody evaluators, amicus attorneys, guardians ad litem, and collaborative MHPs about the effects of … [Read more...]

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12th Annual Collaborative Law “Spring Conference”

February 15, 2019 By Amy Lambert Leave a Comment

The 12th Annual Collaborative Law “Spring Conference” is just a few weeks away! This year’s course “Collaborative Law: Avoiding Breaking Bad When Breaking Up” is co-sponsored by Collaborative Divorce Texas and the Collaborative Law Section of the State Bar of Texas. The focus of this year’s course is tackling difficulties in Collaborative Practice: difficult cases, difficult parties, difficult issues, and difficulties in growing your Collaborative business.   Amy Lambert is this year’s … [Read more...]

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Why Be A Member of Collaborative Divorce Texas?

February 15, 2019 By Rhonda Cleaves Leave a Comment

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Your membership in Collaborative Divorce Texas is important. It is important to you. It is important to your clients. It is important to the greater legal community. And it takes pioneers like you to renew your membership each year and increase the benefit of this growing movement to all of us. Why It’s Important to You Not to sound self-aggrandizing, but Collaborative Divorce Texas has become a leader in our nation and around the world for the promotion of Collaborative Divorce when … [Read more...]

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Woody Mosten to Keynote 12th Annual Collaborative Conference

January 18, 2019 By Amy Lambert Leave a Comment

Collaborative Divorce Texas is excited to welcome Forrest (Woody) Mosten as our keynote speaker to the 12th Annual State Bar of Texas Course in Collaborative Law: "Avoid Breaking Bad When Breaking Up" in Dallas on March 7-8, 2019. Woody will be presenting "Guiding Your Client Through Difficult Situations" as the keynote of a conference focused on handling difficulties in Collaborative practice: difficult issues, difficult personalities, difficult tax questions, and difficult in launching and … [Read more...]

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November Web Traffic Hits New High

December 19, 2018 By Suzanne Blake Leave a Comment

One of the key elements of the Collaborative Divorce Texas public education campaign is to educate more people about the collaborative divorce. For the past 30 months, CDT has been using Social Media to introduce the collaborative divorce process and to drive traffic to the CDT Website.   The campaign was expanded statewide in July and as a result web traffic has been growing to new levels.  November web traffic reached a new high water mark with 6,731 visits to the website which … [Read more...]

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Letter From The President

October 19, 2018 By Honey Sheff, Ph.D. Leave a Comment

Honey Sheff

Fall is a time for giving and for gratitude.  It is also a time for reflection. When I think about the first several months of my presidency of CDT I am filled with gratitude: for the opportunity the collaborative process gives couples, and the professionals who help them, to restructure their families and lives; for the chance to work with the amazing and talented colleagues who share the same vision, hope and commitment; for the members of CDT who support both the process and our organization; … [Read more...]

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The 12th Annual Collaborative Law Course

October 18, 2018 By Amy Lambert Leave a Comment

Forest Woody Mosten

The 12th Annual Collaborative Law Course (Collaborative Law: Avoid Breaking Bad When Breaking Up) will be held March 7-8, 2019 at the Westin Galleria in Dallas, Texas.  The course is co-sponsored by the Collaborative Law Section of the State Bar of Texas and Collaborative Divorce Texas and will offer over 12 hours of continuing education and 3.5 hours of ethics. The course will focus on dealing with difficult cases, parties, issues, and teams in the practice of Collaborative Law. Forrest … [Read more...]

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Credentialing Application Deadline September 30th

September 18, 2018 By Carol Mapp Leave a Comment

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The application deadline for the 2019 Credentialing class is September 30th. There are many benefits to receiving this designation as a Collaborative professional. Fort Worth MHP, Carol Mapp, shares why she decided to pursue being Master Credentialed. Why I Wanted To Be Master Credentialed Master Credentialing demonstrates significant achievements beyond the mandatory training requirements to be a collaborative professional.  Master Credentialing status conveys that this is an individual who … [Read more...]

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Secondary Traumatic Stress in Attorneys Who Practice Family Law

August 17, 2018 By Mickey Gayler Leave a Comment

Lynn and Stephen Jennings

Lynn Jennings, PhD, LPCS, LSOT Stephen Jennings, PhD, LPCS, LSOTP Jennings Counseling and Associates - Amarillo, TX Lynn and Stephen Jennings gave an in-depth look at our professional selves to the attendees at the sold-out Collaborative Divorce Texas Luncheon on Tuesday at the Advanced Family Law Course in San Antonio.  While the title of the talk was enough to make one think we were taking a graduate level course in psychology, the presenters did a terrific job of minimizing jargon and … [Read more...]

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Beyond Interest-Based Negotiation – Stephen H. Sulmeyer, J.D., Ph.D.

July 12, 2018 By Mickey Gayler 3 Comments

Stephen Sulmeyer

Doctor Stephen Sulmeyer led a challenging all day class in Austin in June for the 50+ collaborative team members attending the 2018 CDT Advanced Training.  Moving beyond interest-based negotiation is a big change from how most of us were trained. After briefly tracing the evolution of modern negotiation practice from position-based to interest-based, he broke new ground for many of us by suggesting that the evolution of the next paradigm will require: • a willingness to be uncomfortable; … [Read more...]

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Meet New Board Member Rhonda Cleaves

May 10, 2018 By Rhonda Cleaves Leave a Comment

Rhonda Cleaves

Name: Rhonda Cleaves Date and Place of Birth: Houston. My husband likes to say that I was born before men landed on the moon (a whole 2 weeks). Family: A kind and generous husband, 2 very sports-oriented teenagers – a son and a daughter, and a loveable chocolate lab who doesn’t get nearly as much attention as she should. Education: B.A. from Stephen F. Austin State University, J.D. from University of Texas School of Law; graduate studies at Escuela Libre de Derecho in Mexico City Firm Name: … [Read more...]

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Welcome New CDT Board Members!

April 23, 2018 By Honey Sheff, Ph.D. Leave a Comment

I would like to extend a warm welcome to the new CDT Board members who begin their terms in 2018: Rhonda Cleaves and Kevin Pinkley.  Rhonda Cleaves Rhonda is an attorney in Plano who has an almost exclusively collaborative divorce practice and has already served in several volunteer capacities for CDT, including participation on the Forms committee, in the development of the Parenting Plan Checklist and most recently as Director of the SBOT Collaborative Law Course.    Kevin … [Read more...]

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I MADE A DIFFERENCE Campaign

April 16, 2018 By Honey Sheff, Ph.D. Leave a Comment

I Made A Difference Campaign

Many of you may have heard that CDT launched a major fund-raising effort during spring conference designed to help you by helping us make collaborative divorce the preferred method of divorce in Texas. The “I MADE A DIFFERENCE” campaign, which asked our members to donate the monetary equivalent of one billable hour, was limited to the 2 days of the conference and had the lofty goal of raising $20,000. We are most happy to report that our membership TRULY stepped up and more than 50% of attendees … [Read more...]

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Collaborative Divorce Texas Member – Newsletter Profile

March 12, 2018 By Carol Mapp Leave a Comment

Carol Mapp

Name:  Carol Mapp Date and Place of Birth: Dallas, Texas Family:  We are a close and eclectic bunch Education:  UNT (When it was NTSU)  Bachelors of Science in Early Childhood Education, Masters in Science and Social Work UT Arlington, graduated from Coors University in the early 80s (Yes that is a real thing…I have the diploma somewhere) Firm Name:  Integrated Healthworks Member of Collaborative Divorce Texas since: 2006 or 2008 (I think) I started practicing Collaboratively because: I … [Read more...]

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Register Now! 2018 Collaborative Law Conference

March 12, 2018 By Rhonda Cleaves Leave a Comment

With just over a week before the annual Collaborative Law Conference co-sponsored by Collaborative Divorce Texas and the State Bar of Texas, it’s not too late to register. (Register here.)  Discounts are still available for members of Collaborative Divorce Texas and/or the Collaborative Law Section of the State Bar of Texas. In response to requests for substantive skill building presentations, this year’s Course Directors and Planning Committee have put together a program that will have … [Read more...]

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Practice Tip: Just What Was I Thinking When I Put This Team Together?

March 12, 2018 By Mickey Gayler Leave a Comment

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Two things immediately come to mind when I am being interviewed by a prospective collaborative client: First, how do we get the other spouse to agree to use the collaborative process ; and Second, I hope I know the other lawyer.  This is entirely because assembling a collaborative team is always so much easier when the other lawyer is something of a known quantity.  It makes the initial evaluation and communication period, that time prior to the signing of the Collaborative Agreement, so much … [Read more...]

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Collaborative Divorce Texas Member – Newsletter Profile

February 14, 2018 By Camille Milner Leave a Comment

Camille Milner

Name: Camille Milner Date and Place of Birth: Fort Worth, Texas; December 24, 1958 Family: Tim Crouch, husband, and two sons, Charles (28) and William (21) Education: UT Law School; graduation 1983; UNT, B.A. History & Political Science 1980 Firm Name: S. Camille Milner, P.C. Member of Collaborative Divorce Texas since: Charter Member since January 2004 I started practicing Collaborative Divorce because: I wanted to help families transition to a new stage without being destructive to … [Read more...]

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“The Sweet Spot,” by Christine Carter, Ph.D. – A Book Review by Camille Milner

January 12, 2018 By Camille Milner Leave a Comment

The Sweet Spot

Remember that quote: “If you love your work, you’ll never work a day in your life.” Confucius, Mark Antony and Mark Twain have all been given credit for this quote in slightly different forms. I have even quoted it when I am feeling really happy in what I am doing. But REALLY—we all know that even if we LOVE our work, too often it still seems like work, except for those rare special times… I know you have felt it—that feeling that you have when you are doing something that you love so much … [Read more...]

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The Importance of Team Aptitude

January 12, 2018 By Carol Mapp Leave a Comment

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After the collaborative professional team is formed, important questions arise such as: “What can we accomplish together?”  “How can we best meet the needs of this divorcing family?” It is easier to answer these questions if team members focus on acknowledging, understanding, and honoring the abilities or aptitudes of others. The Johnson O’Connor foundation has studied human behavior and how individuals interact with others and have been a pioneer in the area of aptitude. Aptitude is defined … [Read more...]

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“2017 The Year in Review”

December 14, 2017 By Winifred “Winnie” Huff Leave a Comment

Follow effective action with quiet reflection. From the quiet reflection will come even more effective action. - Peter Drucker December is a month for holiday celebrations and thoughtful reflections on the year.  Reflections that lay the ground work for our New Year’s resolutions and the action steps that support them. This year CDT continued its education and public awareness campaign about the benefits of Collaborative Divorce with the long-term goal of making Collaborative Divorce the … [Read more...]

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Collaborative Divorce Texas Member – Newsletter Profile

December 11, 2017 By Honey Sheff, Ph.D. Leave a Comment

honey sheff

Name: Honey A. Sheff Date and Place of Birth 11-24-1954; Brooklyn, NY Family: one of two children (the younger sister), father deceased and mother about to turn 98; married to my high school sweetheart; 2 millennial aged children (son and daughter) and currently one dog and one cat Education: BA from Queens College/CUNY (1975); MA (1977) and Ph.D. (1981) from Stony Brook University; Graduate Certificate Degree in Dispute Resolution from SMU (2001) Firm Name: Honey A. Sheff, Ph.D., P.C. … [Read more...]

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President’s Letter November 2017

November 13, 2017 By Winifred “Winnie” Huff Leave a Comment

Happy Thanksgiving

“We often take for granted the very things that most deserve our gratitude.” — Cynthia Ozick Thanksgiving puts gratitude front and center.  Initially thinking about gratitude in the context of Collaborative Divorce felt a bit contrived.  Yet, the more I thought, the more my gratitude for it grew (those of you more steeped in the practice of gratitude are not surprised by this) as well as my understanding of why we all do the hard work that it requires of us. Because it matters. Collaborative … [Read more...]

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Important Information about the CDT Credentialing Process and Your Application

August 18, 2017 By Jodi Lazar Leave a Comment

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Applications for the Collaborative Divorce Texas 2018 Master Credentialed and Credentialed Collaborative Professional class are due August 31, 2017.  The application, requirements and FAQs/Instructions are all found on the CDT website under the Credentialing Tab on the Member’s site.  The new class of Master Credentialed and Credentialed Collaborative Professionals will be announced at the Collaborative Law Course in March 2018.  Achievement of this designation demonstrates a commitment to the … [Read more...]

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Important Information about the CDT Credentialing Process and Your Application

August 17, 2017 By Jodi Lazar Leave a Comment

application

Applications for the Collaborative Divorce Texas 2018 Master Credentialed and Credentialed Collaborative Professional class are due August 31, 2017.  The application, requirements and FAQs/Instructions are all found on the CDT website under the Credentialing Tab on the Member’s site.  The new class of Master Credentialed and Credentialed Collaborative Professionals will be announced at the Collaborative Law Course in March 2018.  Achievement of this designation demonstrates a commitment to the … [Read more...]

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What constitutes Leadership and Service for the Master Credentialed Collaborative Professional application?

August 15, 2017 By Jodi Lazar Leave a Comment

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Leadership and service are based upon an applicant’s contributions to the collaborative community over the course of his/her career prior to application. It is not possible to quantify this requirement.  The Credentialing Committee is looking for significant service, dedication and leadership by the applicant, which in most instances will require leadership and service in more than one activity. Leadership and significant service improves the quality of the collaborative community, whether it … [Read more...]

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Tips for Completing the Training and Education Section of the CDT Credentialing Application

July 31, 2017 By Jodi Lazar Leave a Comment

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Tips for Completing the Training and Education Section of the CDT Credentialing Application Although the requirements and application process for CDT Credentialing are demanding, they are objective.  If you meet the requirements, you will be credentialed. The Credentialing Committee asks that you be diligent in completing your application.  Read the Requirements, Application and FAQs/Instructions carefully before submitting your application. Due to the painstaking review of each application, … [Read more...]

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Tips for Completing your Collaborative Divorce Texas Credentialing Application

July 27, 2017 By Jodi Lazar Leave a Comment

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Although the requirements and application process for CDT Credentialing are demanding, they are objective.  If you meet the requirements, you will be credentialed. The Credentialing Committee asks that you be diligent in completing your application.  Read the Requirements, Application and FAQs/Instructions carefully before submitting your application. Due to the painstaking review of each application, the Credentialing Committee asks that you do not apply until you meet the criteria or your … [Read more...]

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Has being credentialed helped my collaborative business?

July 26, 2017 By Carla Calabrese Leave a Comment

Carla Calabrese

Since becoming a Master Credential collaborative lawyer in March, my collaborative business has definitely increased. For whatever reason—knowledge of the collaborative option; couples seeking to avoid the cost, financial and otherwise, of litigation—I see more clients aware of and open to collaboration than ever before.  Several have pointed to my credential as a distinguishing factor in their choice to employ me and my firm.  Simply put, the credential matters.  The impact of … [Read more...]

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Has being credentialed helped my collaborative business?

July 26, 2017 By Carla Calabrese Leave a Comment

Carla Calabrese

Since becoming a Master Credential collaborative lawyer in March, my collaborative business has definitely increased. For whatever reason—knowledge of the collaborative option; couples seeking to avoid the cost, financial and otherwise, of litigation—I see more clients aware of and open to collaboration than ever before.  Several have pointed to my credential as a distinguishing factor in their choice to employ me and my firm.  Simply put, the credential matters.  The impact of … [Read more...]

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President’s Letter June 2017

June 14, 2017 By Winifred “Winnie” Huff Leave a Comment

"We are what we repeatedly do.  Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit."  - Aristotle What is the most important factor in branding Collaborative Divorce? Bottom line, a positive client experience is key to creating and maintaining a strong brand for Collaborative Divorce. No matter how much CDT markets to and educates the public, clients must have good experiences with Collaborative Divorce for it to grow and thrive. And that job rests solely with you.  What determines whether a … [Read more...]

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Effective Client Screening in the Collaborative Process

May 10, 2017 By Kenneth Wise Leave a Comment

As collaborative practitioners we recognize and value the utility of utilizing the collaborative approach to divorce with our clients. While this approach offers many advantages, not all clients may be appropriate for this process. Some clients arrive at this difficult time in their lives with a variety of psychosocial and psychological issues such as active substance abuse, significant depression or anxiety, history of anger and high conflict, or with pre-existing maladaptive personality traits … [Read more...]

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Hello from Your MHP

April 12, 2017 By Honey Sheff, Ph.D. 1 Comment

It has become increasingly common for the Mental Health Professional (MHP) on teams to meet with clients prior to the initial joint meeting. This practice initially began as a mechanism for assessing client fit for the collaborative process, typically when one, or both, of the attorneys had some concerns about the appropriateness of the clients for the process. However, while the value of such screening meetings is clear, over time this practice has expanded beyond its initial purpose and has … [Read more...]

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Challenges for the Stay-at-Home Parent Facing Divorce

April 12, 2017 By Carol Mapp 1 Comment

Due to many factors, such as increasing child care costs, philosophical resolve, or stress of managing home and life, many couples make a conscious decision at some point in their marriage to have only one parent work outside the home. When parents make the decision to divorce, one of the many difficult aspects to consider occurs when one parent is displaced as he or she has not worked in the labor force for a substantial number of years but worked in the home providing unpaid services for … [Read more...]

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The Importance of Gratitude in Your Practice

November 15, 2016 By Carol Mapp Leave a Comment

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November is the month of Thanksgiving, where many of us reflect on what we are grateful for. If you haven’t considered the value of gratitude in the collaborative process, I encourage you to give it some thought. Gratitude is infectious, motivates others, and strengthens team relationships. An environment full of gratitude encourages team members and clients alike to give their best. Gratitude is a core of principle needed for team effectiveness and growth of the collaborative movement. Many … [Read more...]

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Filled Out Your Profile Yet? You Might Be Missing Out!

October 13, 2016 By CD Texas Staff - t.c. Leave a Comment

Among the many benefits of membership in Collaborative Divorce Texas is your member profile on the Collaborative Divorce Texas Website.  Visitors to the site looking to hire a collaborative professional can search by city or county to locate a professional near them.  But an important question is: Have you completely filled out your profile.? If you have not, and some members still haven’t, then you may be missing out on leads for collaborative cases in your own backyard. Last month, we … [Read more...]

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Guiding Parents on When NOT to Tell Their Children about Divorce

October 11, 2016 By Honey Sheff, Ph.D. Leave a Comment

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One of the most difficult challenges facing parents who are planning to divorce is what to tell their children.  While indeed this is perhaps the most painful conversation that parents will ever have, a frequently overlooked dynamic is the timing of this discussion.  As a lawyer or mental health professional, you are often one of the first people in a position to guide your clients in not only what to say, but when to say it.  You need to help your client see this experience from their child’s … [Read more...]

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